Hamburger Helper Remade!

I love presents. I think many of us do. But to be honest, as a single parent with no parents, presents for me are few and far between these days. So anytime an unexpected package ends up on my doorstep, I can’t help doing a little dance of glee! And in February – guess what it was?! Food and a brand new, shiny, beautiful frying pan from T-Fal! (Being a Canadian Beef Ambassador definitely has its’ perks!) It’s likely many of you wouldn’t be quite as excited over a new frying pan, but I have to admit, any new kitchen items are much appreciated here.

The included food was six boxes of Hamburger Helper! Canadian Beef had sent me a new task! The task to create an innovative dinner from Hamburger Helper! My biggest challenge? Getting my kidlets to eat something with sauce in it. I decided I would employ every trick in the “book” (p.s. if you know where this actual book is, could you send a copy my way?). I began with my six year old – recruiting him to help with the preparation would bring him one step closer to actually eating it!

To be honest, it has been some time since I’ve made Hamburger Helper, so I had forgotten just how simple it was! We followed the directions on the box and then started scouring our pantry for additions. Turns out that making hamburger helper was just the thing to discover how much my baby loves mushrooms! We also added red peppers and peas for color and voila! In less than twenty minutes we had a new dish to try. Now as I have mentioned previously, my kidlets are very new food adverse. As for sauces – not for them! But when the Hamburger Helper came out? They demolished it! I’m uncertain what is causing this sudden shift in eating habits – perhaps it is the adventure I am on with Canadian Beef? Whatever it is, I hope it stays and my children continue to play with recipes to add their own spin. Mom enjoys the break and the kids enjoy the creativity.

Due to the ease of preparation and the ability for customization, we have added Hamburger Helper to my son’s list of meals he can choose to make on his cooking day. In this house, we really love these Tuesdays and look forward to trying even more flavour combinations with Hamburger Helper, Canadian Beef and our own choices!

Do you have some favorite ingredients we could try with the next Hamburger Helper (Stroganoff) we are going to try?

And yes, as a Canadian Beef Ambassador I do receive compensation for each post, however, I only write my truth!

Permanence is just so…PERMANENT.

I have been on the tubal ligation list since December. Uncertain whether my paperwork was even received, I phoned the gyno’s office yesterday to see if I had been scheduled. Turns out that I am not considered an emergency and conseqently I am tentatively scheduled for July. Well…unless a real emergency comes up. (Near middle-aged women not wanting children does not constitue an emergency, obviously.)

This decision to seal up the old womb has been made for many years. However, my family doctor was reticent to schedule me, in the event I decided I wanted to change my mind later in life. Apparently being single in your early thirties meant you may someday find a guy (despite a horrible track record), that you wanted to marry and have even more babies. And all of my denials fell on deaf ears.

I do have my reasons for not wanting any more children. I have my hands full with two, my house only has three bedrooms, I would need to buy a bigger car, PPD is brutal and obviously, I don’t want to agree to a third only to become single again shortly after birth. After all, my choices in men (since I turned 29) have been horrible. (See internet troll, I accept full responsibility for my choices after all! And if you are one of my exes from before 29, don’t worry, I still think most of you are wonderful!)

Dating has been pretty non-existent around here for the last few years. I fall smack dab in the middle of the more single women versus single men dating group, and I’m not real keen to jump into another relationship after the horribleness of my last one. Or so I thought…

It’s no secret that I am an online dater. That is, I have profiles on online dating sites but I really don’t go to meet anyone in real life. (This greatly hinders the ability to date the wrong guy! :) ) I find these sites to be highly entertaining and yes, time consuming when you are trying to distract yourself or keep the loneliness at bay. I would peruse the profiles, try to translate the bad grammar and spelling, giggle at the funny ones and shudder at the creepy ones. But then I found the chat room. And everything has gone downhill. Fast.

Don’t get me wrong! The chat rooms on this site are awesome. Usually. It’s a great group of gals and guys that chat about everything from dating fiascos to children’s bedtimes to advice and prayer requests. I have made some wonderful online friends, both male and female, but then Hawk happened. Here’s his stats:

Single, no children, athletic build, light brown hair with blue eyes, 6’4″ and likes to read! (Okay, so I may be a little more excited than I should be over the fact that he actually reads something more than a magazine or newspaper…) And the best part?! I didn’t have to attempt to translate his profile, the boy can ACTUALLY write. Shocking, I know. Anyway, I digress. I met Hawk in the chat room, sent him an innocent whisper and much to my surprise he whispered back! We have now spent the last few weeks chatting online every day (well except for the five VERY long days he went to a wedding) and I swear I am half in love with the boy already. Except there are a few catches. He lives in another country. He’s not near as infatuated with me as I am with him (it’s only a matter of time ;P ). AND he wants kidlets.

So for the first time in SIX years…I have the tiniest sliver of doubt… What would it be like to be in a healthy, committed relationship planning for the birth of your baby? What would it be like to share the birthing process with someone who didn’t make you feel like a failure for taking the epidural? What would it be like to have TWO loving people to take care of the child in the same house? I don’t have the answer to any of these questions, but I’d be lying if I didn’t tell you that I’ve been asking them for the last few days.

I do receive a lot of views on my dating profile – why wouldn’t I? I’m pretty, ambitious, funny, intelligent, cool and of course humble. But the actual message to view ratio is pretty low. And whenever I look at their profile, I see the same thing. They either have or don’t have children but they always want MORE. So I’ve positioned myself even further out of the dating pool.

Now Hawk certainly hasn’t proposed, (nor have I yet but you should see what I’m planning! ;) ), but I am really surprised that it only took the first guy to ever match the most check marks on my dating list, to cause me to doubt my decision. What if getting my tubes tied means I will miss out on my lobster? My standard answer used to be – well then he’s obviously not my lobster – but as I stalk Hawk online (literally, I really think I do!) I am starting to wonder…

Should I or shouldn’t I?

Prior to attending my iud removal appointment, a couple of tweeps (people I follow on Twitter) advised me to stay strong. Apparently they have had experiences with their own doctors who did not want to remove these foreign little devices, unless it was time to replace it with a new one. “Don’t let her talk […]

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The foreign body.

Sex! Do I have your attention? Good. Now excuse me while I go empty my spam folder… Ahh sex. The good, the bad, the lovely. Can be helluva fun but can also have one heck of a side effect. Namely nine months of porcelain bowl hugging, at least eight hours of torturous body ripping, and […]

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My first day in jail.

If you had told me this morning that by the end of the day I would be sobbing, sitting in the holding room of an RCMP detachment office, officially under arrest, I would have laughed out loud. Sadly, this ended up being my reality rather than a bad dream. So here is what happened: Once […]

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